February 2nd was my birthday. This year is themed, "Awesome drip drip." My pictures (below) explains why though; the dark melanin popping skin...the outfit.....the figure....the smile. Like you could feel it so much you could touch it, and it's so much you can feel it dripping like it's hot. Besides, I didn't want "drip drop"......so, "drip … Continue reading AWESOME DRIP DRIP →

While growing up, my parents (especially my dad), in their bid to push me to do better, compared me to others. "You nor see Saro*(not real name)? He dey do this one, he dey do that one. He don enter Primary 6, you still dey Primary 3 and una be agemates ooo. Na two heads he … Continue reading MOVE AT YOUR OWN PACE →

 I really don't know why I took so long to come wish you all a Happy New Year here.   I thought about and said to myself, "I will balance and do this later."And here we are, 25 days after. Still, it is never too late to wish you a happy new year. May this year bring … Continue reading WELCOME TO 2021 →

Inheriting enemies: Loyalties and betrayals. It was also in JSS2 I learnt more about enemies or friends. I don't know about how it works today but in my time, class was working like a coven. The phrases, "The friend of my friend is my friend", "The enemy of my enemy is my friend", "The friend of my … Continue reading FINDING ME: MY TEENAGE STORY (7) →

This is a continuation of the last episode......Whenever girls talked about their 'periods', I kept thinking, "So, I still be small girl for where all these girls dey!" It never crossed my mind to lie about my period, maybe I would have done so to save myself the shame.Some days, I would get home and … Continue reading FINDING ME: MY TEENAGE STORY (6) →